In It Together

While we were exercising this morning, an elderly man ambled into our circle with his wife. Many recognized him. Many didn’t. He was showing up after three years. He had suffered a paralytic stroke and has since been keeping low. Now, he says, he has almost recovered and feels confident enough to venture out.
Meeting old friends like Srichand Arora, the man wanted to share his thoughts and feelings after so many years. He said he felt “liberated” being in the Garden with us and hinted at a domestic problem, promptly to be brushed aside by Arora: “What you are saying is nothing new, this is a common story with all of us.”
What that domestic issue could be, is irrelevant. The fact this man felt comfortable to open his heart and discuss his problems in the Garden is important. We seldom realize the kind of support group we have become, both collectively and individually, for one another. Without a moment’s hesitation, we discuss whatever bothers us – from personal issues like recalcitrant bahus and nagging ailments to MHADA flats, commodity prices and sourcing songs from the Internet. That we are assured of a sympathetic ear, a helping hand, a shoulder to lean upon and if nothing else, a sounding board speaks volumes of the mutual trust and familial bonding we have come to enjoy.
This has not happened overnight. Through all our internal bickering, daily pranks and madcap jokes, the many parties and picnics, and phuntis, we have created a little universe together, secure in the knowledge that we are there for one another. Meeting every morning for a few laughs is only an excuse to strengthen our bonds and yes, spread happiness.
Dilip Babani says:
Yes, it is true that in the Laughing Club all are helpful. We like to help one another. We like to make everybody laugh. No personal remarks are made. The morning exercises with witty remarks makes the mood good. I think all are happy in the Club. All members appreciate one another also. God bless the Club and its members.
--Dilip